Fr1skY~FaY

Does age really matters?  Ok, i try to make the topic smaller. Only bout age factor in a relationship. Whether it’s the gal elder than the guy or the guy is much elder than the gal. It’s alwiz gossips arnd couples like this? But does age really matters? When both r in love wit each other, why care bout what other ppl say, rite? For instance, Datuk Siti Nurhaliza who juz got married to Datuk Khalid (if not mistaken) whom is 25yrs elder than her. Everyone is talking bout their marriage, not sure envy them or juz dun agree wit their marriage. But both of them din care bout ppl’s view and got married under many ppl’s blessings. At least they weren’t like Britney who divorce in less than 24hrs rite? So I pressume their happily married now. =D At least they weren’t like Britney who divorce in less than 24hrs rite?

ok, next is when a gal is elder than the guy. No matter it’s a day, a mth or a yr older, ppl wud still talk bout tat couple. Love is blind and sometimes age doesn’t comes 1st. They wudn’t care so much bout age, why wud they wanna care? It dun mean tat they wun b happy if the gal is elder. It’s only the traditional way tat ppl think gal shud b younger than her husband. U noe y it happen like this? it’s because during the olden days, gals r married to a family wen they’re very very young. So their husband wud b def much elder than them. moreover, ppl in the olden days can marry as many wives as they want. The wud find a younger one when they’re bored of their wives or not happy with them, although how much she contribute to the family, how much efford she’ve done for the family. Men in the olden days tell me like tat. Mayb coz I watch too much movies, but i still believe men at this centuries still behave like this. Sad to say tat~

Ok, an example of a happy marriage wen the wife is elder than the husband. My mum have a fren, which is 1 or 2 yrs elder than her husband. Is now happily married wit a son. the only thg is…she’s not willing to tell her son her age. The reason shud b she’s elder than her husband and she’s afraid tat her son can’t accept. I was surprise to hear tat. But i can’t blame her too, at my mum’s age which is at her 40s now, tat time was like so weird if ur husband is younger. But now, many couples r like this. they are so many "Elder sisters and younger brothers love affair". So why do u ppl alwiz look at those couples as if they’re alien once u noe the guy is younger than the gal.

1 thg i dun agree is i do see some old woman, not too old, mayb in their 30s to 50s, holding a guy which is 10-20yrs younger. I’m alwiz wondering it’s her son or lovers. It’s so disgusting seeing older women in love wit such young men. Oopz,  I apologize if any1’s offended.

Ok, it’s my time to write my point of view now. I coudn’t accept my bf who is younger than me. Reason is i’m already much younger than my age, no matter looks or behaviour plus character. So juz imagine wat if my bf is younger, exactly the same wit my age which ppl think I am. You know, ppl norm say i’m only 13-15 yrs old leh, unless I act maturely or wear more like a lady. Wait, I dun mean I dun wear more like a lady, juz tat i’m more to casual, which I think is more confortable. I’m still very young and I alwiz dress more like my age, rather than those office lady or aunties… Shud b back to my age topic. I do not deny tat some guy which is younger could b very mature. they might b like 20+ if even if their 15-16. But to me, I juz couldn’t accept it, I do not really noe y. But tat’s my border line to myself in bf’s qualities. Some1 ever say tat I have too high qualities in choosing bfs. I do agree than I’m kinda fussy in somethgs. But in bf, I really do not noe. I can’t b fussy sometimes, things wun alwiz turn up to b like wat u’ve planned, coz when love comes, I can’t say tat i can reject and stop it fr coming. I can’t predict anythg tat might happen, can’t stop anythg which might happen.  At the end of my blog, I really dunno why do I bring this matter up.  Anyhow, I’m still enjoying my single life and I dun hope to have any interruptions right now. =D